Mate (2015) / What Women Want (2016) — Geoffrey Miller, Ph.D.

Buy hardcover version (‘Mate’, 2015) on Amazon

Buy paperback version (‘What women want’, 2016) on Amazon

Buy audiobook (‘Mate’, 2015) on Amazon

The Mating Grounds podcast (250+ episodes, 2014-2016, associated with this book) is available on Apple Podcasts, Podbay, Podcast App, Podtail, Everand, and Podnews

Description

Whether they conducted their research in life or in the lab, experts Tucker Max and Dr. Geoffrey Miller have spent the last 20+ years learning what women really want from their men, why they want it, and how men can deliver those qualities.
The short answer: become the best version of yourself possible, then show it off. It sounds simple, but it's not. If it were, Tinder would just be the stuff you use to start a fire. Becoming your best self requires honesty, self-awareness, hard work and a little help.
Through their website and podcasts, Max and Miller have already helped over one million guys take their first steps toward Ms. Right. They have collected all of their findings in Mate, an evidence-driven, seriously funny playbook that will teach you to become a more sexually attractive and romantically successful man, the right way:
No "seduction techniques". No moralizing. No bullshit. Just honest, straightforward talk about the most ethical, effective way to pursue the win-win relationships you want with the women who are best for you.

A free sample chapter (Introduction) in doc form is here

An evidence-based blog about the best shoes to wear on a first date is here

Praise

"Every single page has interesting information. A great resource."―Dr. Drew Pinsky, host of the Loveline radio show and Dr. Drew On Call on HLN
"The most unexpected book of the year: World-famous evolutionary psychologist meets world-famous drunken asshole. The result: A sober, solid, necessary, and authoritative guide not just to dating, but to becoming a better man."―Neil Strauss, author of New York Times bestseller The Game and The Truth
"I wish I could teleport a copy of Mate back in time and give it to my 13-year-old self, and then instruct him to read it once a year for the next decade."―Jake Seliger, author and founder of The Story's Story
"From the very beginning, this book plays it straight. It's about becoming a better person and creating positive, fulfilling relationships. This isn't a book with a predatory, pickup artist mindset."―Aubrey Marcus, founder of Onnit Fitness and the Aubrey Marcus Podcast
"A fascinating look at mating and dating from the perspective of a guy who gained fame for doing the former.... Miller's academic influence gives it some much needed credibility."―Adam Kovac, AskMen.com

Reviews

Interviews with the authors

Editions

U.S./Canada: Little, Brown & Co. (hardcover (as Mate), paperback (as What Women Want), ebook, & audiobook)
German: Mosaik, Berlin
Portugese: Sextanta, Rio de Janeiro

References and Suggested Readings: The complete list for the book is here